TLC is celebrating Mother’s Day with dads — a quintet of single fathers looking for ladies who will love their kids as much as they do. And love them, too. The net’s new series Single Dad Seeking features the diverse dads taking a shot at love with women who want to be moms but haven’t found the right man to make it so.
Getting to know one another via months of phone calls, video chats, text and email, the matchmaker-paired couples finally agree to take the next step, moving in together for a trial run at their happily ever after.
Meet the seekers:
Jason Bunch — Indianapolis, Indiana
Jason was born and raised in Indiana where he raises his two teenage daughters. He is a public defender with an edge who loves metal music, art and reading. Jason is looking for a connection with Sara, a video game tester, who is originally from Connecticut.
Mike McGill — Orlando, Florida
Mike was born and raised in New Jersey. He works as a roofer and resides in Orlando with his son Mikey. Mike is hoping that he will find that special someone in Valene. She is originally from New Jersey and has always wanted to have at least one child.
Paul Sanderson — Ovett, Mississippi
Paul was born and raised in the South. He works in retail to support his four children. Paul is hopeful things will work out with Kallie. She was born and raised in North Carolina and is one of triplets.
John — Fishers, Indiana
John was born and raised in Kentucky where his family still lives. He works as a mechanical engineer and loves motorcycles and weight lifting. He currently lives in Indiana with his son Elijah. John is hoping that Denise, a nurse and equally enthusiastic fitness fanatic, is the perfect match.
Jake — Provo, Utah
Jake was born and raised in Utah along with his 12 brothers and sisters. He has three children and works in construction. Jake is hoping to make it work with Ami, a high school science teacher from Fort Lee New Jersey.
We sat down with Paul, Mike and Jason earlier this year to talk about what motivated them take part in this unique social experiment, what their kids thought of the process and more.
Channel Guide Magazine: Can you start by each giving me a sort of CliffNotes version of your experience as a single dad?
Paul: Oh, it’s changed me so much. You say you want to be closer to your kids, and something like this comes along you could never imagine how much closer you’ll be with them. I mean even being here, as much fun as I’ve had right now, I just miss them terribly. I use to work offshore, so I’d be gone 21 days at a time and as a dad you kind of put your priorities as “Yeah, know I gotta provide and work,” and it didn’t really affect me like it does now. Just from being the sole parent, the bond just seems to be so much stronger.
Mike: For me, it’s probably the hardest thing I’ve ever done in my life — trying to work a full-time job, support the house for him and I, pay the mortgage and also be able to pick him up on time, and do everything that we need to do. Baseball, soccer, all that other stuff, it’s the hardest thing I’ve ever done. But it’s the most rewarding thing I’ve ever done, because at the end of the day, when he lays down and I tuck him in and he tells me he loves me, that’s all that matters to me. It makes every hard obstacle in our way that much worth it. It’s the most rewarding job I’ve ever had in my life. He’s actually my hero.
Jason: I think what you typically have when you have the father who is only there temporarily, they’re missing so much apart of that child’s life. And the awesome thing about being a single dad is that I’ve been there every step of the way. I haven’t missed any part of my kids’ lives. We talked earlier about the little bit of a stigma that’s involved — sometimes, you get a little bit of a like, a double take in stores and things like that. But it’s absolutely worth it, because I’ve been able to enjoy all of my kids lives, whereas my father was not always in the picture, and so he missed a lot of my life. I thankfully didn’t do that with my kids.
CGM: What is your co-parenting situation like? Because that can have a huge impact on your experience as a single parent.
Jason: My ex-wife is not in the picture at all, so it’s just been me.
Mike: For me personally, my son’s mother is 1,200 miles away up in New Jersey and I live in Orlando. We actually co-parent pretty well, as far as arrangements for holidays or summers and things like that. As opposed to when we were before when we were together, it was harder because we were too busy arguing with each other, so it’s worked out a lot better, and she ended up actually being one of my closest friends.
Paul: I would say me and my ex work well with the kids. I mean, that’s pretty much what the total of the relationship now is. She sees them pretty regularly, every other weekend now — but she lives about two hours away, so that’s pretty much the extent.
CGM: Tell me what made you decide to take a chance on this show?
Paul: I would say I was pretty much in a stagnant situation — that’s the best word I could use to describe it — where, you know, I can’t really go out and date because I don’t have anyone to watch the kids, or anything like that. I would try internet dating and it was going nowhere — women would say “hey, you look nice,” all this stuff, and I would invest what little bit of time and effort I have into it. And then as soon as I mentioned I have four kids, that was the end of the conversation.
So I basically prayed for God to fix my stagnant situation, and the very next week I got an e-mail that I though was a scam. The very first words on it were “this is not a scam.” I was like, no, that’s a scam. I threw it away for like a week, but I got another one and they just kept on. The curiosity got me and I finally called, and it took them a very long time to convince me that this was a real thing that they were wanting to do. And it seemed like an answer to my situation.
Mike: For me personally, similar to Paul, I thought it was something that it wasn’t. I mean, it seemed too good to be true, so I think my response was “I’m not sending Mikey to Nigeria and I’m not gonna wire-transfer any money.” [Laughs] But they were persistent — but in the best way. They didn’t hound us; they let us know that “we have this to offer.” I took two years off for me — where I didn’t even consider dating because I was too busy trying to teach him how to read and math and everything else — and it just worked out so well with the timing, and I was ready to go out there. And also I got sick of my son saying my cooking’s horrible, so maybe I can fix that. [Laughs]
Jason: I got an email and I thought it was a scam, as well, but then I double checked it — I crossed checked it against some things. I’m a criminal defense attorney, so I was investigating it and all the names were legit, the phone numbers were legit, and so I finally decided to respond. Then, through the process, I got to know the producers. So that’s how I got involved. I think we’ll all say it sort of fell into our laps … which is just insane [Laughs].
Paul: … divine intervention or something. There has to be someone out there looking out for the five of us, because the hardest thing to do is date with a child.
Mike: It gets lonely laying down at night by yourself. They go to bed early and you still got the next three, four hours by yourself. You’re cleaning up the mess from dinner, you’re cleaning up the toys on the ground, but you’re doing it by yourself, as opposed to having someone there that you’re head over heels in love with and enjoying that time.
CGM: Obviously TV viewers are going to want to see a happy ending, regardless of whether it’s real or not. So did you guys feel any sort of pressure in that regard — oh God this is, this is television, I have to make good television — or did you just allow the process to happen?
Paul: The relationships are real. There’s feelings involved, and those are gonna make a happy ending — especially for me, just the kids getting to experience this, for me, is worth it a lot.
Jason: Right. I mean, I think there is a reality TV construct for sure, but what transpired inside of that construct was absolutely genuine. So, it’s real emotions and these events were absolutely 100 percent real. I didn’t feel any pressure to present a happy ending for television. I wanted a happy ending for myself, so that’s what I was thinking about. I wasn’t thinking about the fact that there were cameras there, because after a couple of days, you kind of get used to them — they kind of become background — and you have to focus on what’s really going on in your life. Because once the cameras are gone you still have your life to live.
CGM: Were each of you allowed to have your experience, however it went, to have as much time as you wanted to communicate with the women before you met with them in person? Were you allowed to do this on your own terms?
Mike: We were, sort of.
Paul: It was loosely open to us. They gave us some options through the matchmaker: this is someone who will fit what you’ve told us you’re looking for. Then we did the video chat and everything like that. And they didn’t want us to experience everything, because they want to be there for several of our first things. They also wanted to capture our real experiences, too, so, it was kind of a give-and-take.
Mike: Absolutely.
CGM: Can you each talk about the matchmaking process, because I’m guessing, you’re gonna learn some things about yourself in the process, too, while you’re kind of looking for a woman or trying to make a match.
Paul: It was really extensive, and going through that, I had to answer some of my own questions as to what I’m looking for. You know, you don’t really realize that there probably should be more training on dating. It would probably help in general.
Mike: Like a Bachelor degree. [Laughs]
Paul: Yeah. It really has taught me a lot about what I’m looking for, and what our family needs.
Mike: Yeah, for years I’ve gone off my own decisions as far as dating. It hasn’t always steered me wrong, but going through the matchmaker, I was really reluctant, because I’m filling things about myself. So I’m giving a stranger all my information, and they’re gonna go ahead and statistically put it together and see what is out there for me. I was like, how is this person gonna know off of what I just checked on question C? But to be honest with you, I’m kind of bummed I didn’t go through it earlier, because they were spot on with everything and professional in every way. Our matchmaker couldn’t have been any better.
Jason: Yeah I mean, I don’t know if it was the personality test or what it was, but they were able to find more than one match for me and probably any of the women that they presented to me would have worked out. Because I talked to a couple of them, and in talking to both of them, there was an instant connection. They fit.
In the “swipe right” culture, we’re still being matched on somewhat on looks, but that’s only one criteria. A lot of it was personality, interests and things of that nature. I remember talking to Sara, who I’m on the show with, and one of the first things she said was just about how she likes, on an off day, to sit down and watch The Shining. I was like, wait, you like horror movies? [Laughs] and those things just kept piling up and piling up. I’m like, “Are you a factory creation — do you really exist?” She was a real person, and the matchmaker was the one that was able to put that together for us.
Paul: It was unreal how the chemistry worked, it really was.
Jason: It really was. She fit so many criteria that I was like, “You are like a fantasy girl” — but she wasn’t. She was a real person. [Laughs]. It allowed a much deeper connection to occur right out of the gate. And that you wouldn’t just see someone across a bar and like the way they look, because you may not be compatible with them at all.
Paul: Plus, how hard it is for us to even do that on our own, with the kids, you know?
CGM: Did you have family discussions with your kids before you actually said yes to this?
Mike: Yeah, we were all similar with that. Like, I eased my son into it slowly. He’s only six, so I would tell him when I got contacted … then waited a couple of weeks … “Well, I have an opportunity, we can do something.” But I left it at that, and then I eased him into “There’s gonna be cameras, if you want to do it.” This was before anything was finalized with us, once I knew he was okay with it — it literally took me four months just to break it to him. The last part was, “Are you okay with Daddy meeting somebody and spending the summer with them?” He was all about it, he was so on board. He was like, “Oh so we get to go on vacation, we get to spend the summer with someone amazing, and we get to go have all this fun!” so he was so stoked to do it. He was more excited almost than I was. I was nervous.
Jason: My kids were probably the oldest of the group, they were teenagers, so we just had an honest conversation about everything, and talked about it, and talk about whether or not we wanted to do this. We all decided that we did. There were definitely measures that were taken to protect them, and there was ongoing discussions with producers about what we did or didn’t want on TV in regards to them. I felt like everything was handled with care, and they definitely had a say in it because of their age. They were part of it.
Paul: In my case, it’s funny because I have an older set and a younger set, and I handled it almost exactly as they did with theirs, according to their ages. With the older ones, it’s just easier to to sit down and talk to them about it, and see their feelings on it and everything. It was almost identical, according to the age group.
CGM: Plus — and I know this from experience — with the older ones especially, it’s also “one minute I’m fine with it and the next minute I’m fine with nothing.”
Jason: Absolutely, and I definitely experienced that. There were definitely days that were better than others with them, but we’ve done some pickups and stuff since then and now they’re like it’s old hat and fine how many hours are we shooting.
Mike: We got fortunate. The production company, our crew and everything — I can speak for myself, and [Jason and Paul] can probably say the same — they understood that Mikey came first, and my son is what matters more than myself. They understood it. Everyone from the production crew, to [show publicist] Raul, everybody — everyone has been understanding that if Mikey’s not happy and I pull out that you understood why. They also understood that going into this, that the children came first, before any of the show stuff.
Paul: They were really good and made sure to make us comfortable with the idea of “We understand these are your kids. This isn’t a TV show, when it comes to that.” I was 100 percent confident that if anything was to ever go wrong I could say no to this and it would be handled that way.
CGM: Tell me about the first you met these women. Terrifying? Thrilling? Somewhere in between?
Jason: I thought about that, because my whole issue always with online dating, where you don’t see the person first is, is there chemistry? Like, what if she gets here and I feel nothing? (Laughs) Because I’ve gone out on dates like that — I meet somebody and then I go out on date, and I’m like, when’s this gonna be over? Well, it’s not gonna be over for a while! [Laughs]. So I was very nervous about that, and then when Sara got to the door, there was chemistry immediately — just a huge sense of relief. I was ecstatic, actually, when I met her. It was great. It was a wonderful moment.
Mike: I was super nervous for the day I met Valene, I was more nervous than I probably have been since the day my son was born. The whole time my son’s like, “Dad, your face is getting red! You’re sweating!” My son’s my best friend so he was taking jabs left and right, and making it easier for me. Once he came in, I stuttered a little bit, and I was sweating a lot. But it was awesome, because Mikey was also a part of that moment, so he kind of cured the jitters a little bit for me. It was a great feeling.
Paul: That’s actually what I like about Kallie was she was doing that for me. Just talking to her, she goes out of her way to make me feel comfortable. That was a big help for me, because I can be a little awkward sometimes. The first meeting, it is awkward, but you talked to this person, you know something about them, you know you like them, you know you match up on so many things — but you haven’t met them yet. Meeting is still awkward no matter what. That was where our chemistry came from — how open she is and helpful, as far as trying to make it work.
CGM: I won’t ask you to reveal any spoilers, but was there any part of the process where you found yourself saying, “I would have never in a million years guessed this was going to happen?”
Jason: I think it’s happening right now! [Laughs]
Mike: For me, I think just seeing how well it worked — and not only from our standpoint, but as far as everybody who made this show possible, the steps that they took and how thorough they were. It made it just that much easier. I remember thinking throughout the summer that I could not believe this actually working. I was laying down in bed, and I was like “This is amazing!” I must have used amazing a million times over the summer. I couldn’t stop saying it. That’s the best way I could sum up everything that happened.
Paul: Yeah, it’s a lot. I’m a pretty plain guy. I live off a dirt road in the middle of nowhere and I have actually said the words, “I can’t believe these people would do something like that — be on one of those reality TV shows.” It’s really funny. God has a sense of humor. He really likes seeing me eat crow. Just the way this came about was an amazing opportunity for me and my family. Just looking around, this is something I would have never done, which is why I’m so happy we did it as a family. I think this is a good thing, not just for myself, but my kids also.
Single Dad Seeking premieres Sunday, May 8 at 10/9CT on TLC.
The men are jerks, especially Jake. The kids are spoiled brats. They need structure and discipline, in which the dad’s are lacking, due to probably feeling guilty of being a single dad. Why do these women put themselves in this position? They need to value themselves first in order to find someone who values them. The women could do so much better. They need to move on and forget about these men. They’re just looking for a maid and a cook. It’s best to be with yourself than to be with the wrong person.
I agree jake is a big jerk, and his oldest daughter is a big spoiled brat. He needs to get things under control or he will never find a women that will put up with him or his kids.
I’m watching the final episode and I’m so angry at some of these Dads that I could go through the tv and punch a couple of them. Jake is the biggest jerk of them all and that’s being nice. I think he just wanted to get his stupid face on tv! Amy can get a real man…cuz he isn’t one! I’d like to see her hook up with Mike.
And don’t even get me started on that selfish whiny self-centered bitch Valente…Mike you had better run for the hills.
As for Sara and Jason it’s not going to work as long as he keeps letting his daughter run the show. Being a cool is one thing but you have to be a parent first and foremost! So I feel that if he doesn’t straighten his kid out…this isn’t going to work.
Valene thinks she’s all that and some. Mike can do so much better for him and mikey. Denise would be a good match for Mike she is a sweetheart and Mike would treat her like a princess.
Mike and Valene were riveting as a couple. They are having issues about alone time very early into the relationship. I could not see it ending well. She is a beautiful looking woman and when the time is right, she could find Mr. Right, and have a family of her own. I think the ex-wife’s presence, how she was, Son Mikey’s frequent needs, and too little quality alone time without intrusions being a huge issue (relationship destroyer!) is revealing that she would be happier with a mature, devout, single man, without the previous ties and obligations./
John and Denise may be perfect for each other. She cannot have a child due to Chrohn’s Disease, She lost her marriage due to that issue, John comes with a child that she is loving towards, wonderful with, he is young enough to ween with her as his mother (in time), John seems like a decent guy who wants to take things slow and carefully in the relationship. He is promising as a partner to her. She should not feel he might have an issue with her not being able to have kids if she is coming in and loving his as her own. That might change, the barrenness, lots of people end up with children who for a while had not been able to have them./
Jason and Sarah are promising in a relationship. He comes with too much to put up with- the ex girlfriend needs to go with the title of mom, visitation, and presence rights. The Ex girlfriend should take the girls’ out, to remain a friend, role model to them. Unless she was to get back together with Jason. Jason and Ex Girlfriend have tremendous potential as a couple due to their compatability, mature relationship, parenting roles. Then again the Ex girlfriend may want the best of two worlds. To have ties to Jason via the girls. Sarah has some things she should not have around her in a healthy relationship with a male, and with none in her past! Jason seems very desirable, but not much apart from him and his career, is good, for a single woman looking for romance, family, and love to have to tolerate. Otherwise, they are with tons of potential./
Some of these desirable men with 3 or 4 children should maybe be matched up with a woman who has been married with children- like the ‘Brady Bunch,’ other. It could be a disaster for a single woman, no kids if it did not work out. Too complicated for the males too. It helps a lot if the kids are respectful and accepting of a new Mother; otherwise, it could split the relationships up. Too much havoc.
The show is rather interesting as far as curiousity to what ends up happening to the couples in the end-do they make it or not. The living together to get to know each other can be bad. There are other ways to know each other, try it out, past living together, or ritual dating!If it does not work out, someone is left hurt…
I hope Mikey will always be surrounded by people who love and cherish him. He is a bright and shining light. That child was born with a loving heart. So funny and cute too. I think they deserved better than Valene they deserve a Denise type, or Denise herself, better yet!
Mike and his son are both my favorite ! He is an awesome dad and I would love to have the chance to show him how a real woman takes care of her man and son. Mike come find me ! Lol
I think Mike is absolutely adorable and his little boy is a sweetie as well. Valine is a spoiled brat. This man has a small child he’s responsible for.how could she be so selfish? She knew what she were getting herself into when she met him. Mike will never leave his child for Valine nor should he. His child will always come before Valine. And that’s the way it should be. She is horrible for him he’s better off finding a woman who is a single mother. Good luck to you buddy and it’s so nice and refreshing to see a Hands-On father.
Who in they’re right mind would not want to just give Mike’s son the biggest hug ever! There is soooooo much we can learn from both father and son here. Their smile’s are infectous. How blessed are daddy and son to have each other? Two people who are showing the world what loving someone is all about. Thanks guys!
I think valeen needs to go back,and amy as well,i think both women,requires to much attention and they would never make a good stepmom never,so guys send them packing.and now about Amy love her,and she designed deserves so much better,she is to good for jake
Someone, PLEASE teach Jason’s daughters some table manners. Watching them eat was nauseating. Four of these men completely creep me out. Mike seems like a good guy who found the wrong woman in Valene. I don’t know what she thought she was signing up for, but she looks like the best candidate for wicked stepmother. Run, Mike, run!
I don’t typically post comments, let alone watch dating shows, however, I came across the commercial and it intrigued me.
I just had to let everyone know how much of a B!TCH VALENE IS!!! Seriously. Mikey is the sweetest kid (even the nicest child on the SHOW!) and this woman is griping about Mikey taking a shower?! YOU KNOW WHAT YOU SIGNED UP FOR WOMAN! I just saw the latest episode and Mike thinks that Mikey doesn’t know that he’s fighting with Veifer (yeah she’s a heifer). Mikey completely knows your emotions. He asked where Veifer was and he clearly knows that there’s an issue if you’re trying your hardest to avoid the BITC4!
I love what you said!! Lol!!!
I am not impressed with any of these men..I understand why they are single and will continue that way..very immature, allow their children to run their lives..and they need to have alone time to get to know a woman..
What the heck are you talking about Joyce? Do you have kids? If so, sounds like you run a Nazi encampment.
I totally agree, their kids are brats… Those guys need to be alone for a long time until they are ready to put a partner above themselves and their off spring they are not ready for a committed relationships because they allowed their children to become self-righteous me first mentality…
I am not impressed with any of these men..I understand why they are single and will continue that way..very immature, allow their children to run their lives..and they need to have along time to get to know a woman..
John is a closet queen
Valeen, is a spoiled selfish hussy. The man had a kid & she knew it going in this.
Jakes kids r brats that needs 2 have their butt spanked
She’s right Valeen is spoiled and selfish, I came across the show late watching it. I like Mike and he’s son is so cute. if it doesn’t work out for Mike and Valeen I like to meet Mike myself. Even know I’m older then she is.
Leigh
And Mike is really HOT….
Mike is really NOT……………..Saw the show where he left Valene alone and took ADHD Mikey to the Park. Why didn’t he call her? Play head games Much, Mike??? Valene is a beautiful woman and shouldn’t settle for an “average Joe” like Mike who lets everything be controlled by his kid. All the single dads on the show have way too much baggage so I’m hoping all five of the ladies made the right choice to move on…………These guys need parenting lessons as children need a stable and loving home environment. Kids should have a plan in place with reasonable rules and well defined consequences. Jake should look at his oldest daughter’s actions as pure out of control manipulation. She may be sweet and helpful at other times but it doesn’t give her the right to be a demanding brat. Do the hard work as the parent and don’t carry her around the zoo…….listen to her whine and teach her what’s not acceptable. There just is so much wrong here and I can only input so much?!…..
I agree. I am single mom of an eleven year old daughter. I would appreciate a man like mike and his son is adorable
Mike is so hot. I hope he finds love. Mickey is adorable and smart. Mike has done an amazing job with him.
When are any of you guys going to realize that you need to date , a lot , and hire sitters. After spending a day with any one of these little brats, I d be ready for a few hours of down time. This show has reinforced my belief that men are from Mars. And, the little teen aged brat who is calling the shots with Sara, needs a dose of putting her big girl panties on. She is deliberately trying to sabotage their relationship. The ex needs boundaries.
John you are an awesome dad! Love watching you interact with your son!
What is up with the two different Mikey’s. One boy has perfect teeth and the other is in need of some orthodontic work. What’s up with passing both of these children off as Mikey? Will the real Mikey please stand up!
The editing on some of their clips is really confusing. The day that Valene took Mikey to the zoo, for instance, there are intertwined clips of him with really short hair and all his baby teeth, with other clips of his hair longer and teeth that have come in after the others were lost. It makes you wonder how much more of the series is edited to seem like a shorter time frame. It’s probably quite deceiving…
It was not appropriate for Mike just to ditch Valene and take Mikey to the park without speaking with her first. It was not cool of Valene to shut Mike off when he was trying to get Mikey to bed. No one is ever perfect and people make mistakes in life while on the learning curve. I think Valene was very sweet to Mikey when they spent the day together and Mike never gives her credit for her efforts as interacting with a child is new to her, IMHO. It must be hard to try to form a bond with a potential mate and start a relationship in front of cameras. Plus we only see what the makers of this TV show want us to see so I’m sure that the full reality of what’s really going on is not exposed. It’s all about the shows ratings anyway. Mike doesn’t seem like a kindhearted person and Valene could do so much better. Mikey runs the household back home so I think Valene would be quite unhappy and bored stuck in Orlando Florida.
I agree he shouldn’t left with out speaking to her, but shouldn’t of been blowing up he’s phone while he was spending time with his son.
Leigh
I think Valene needs to take her head outta her butt! She knew Mike had a son and for her to expect Mike to put her before his son is ridiculous! Then when he tries to talk to her she cuts him off and walks away!!!! She needs to grow up and realize the world does not revolve around her….she may be beautiful on the outside but that’s it….Mike needs to find someone who won’t get jealous of a 6yr old boy! No wonder her marriage didn’t last….I’m guessing he took to long in the bathroom she felt neglected and ignored
Agree 100%
Absolutely right! Valene is waaay too self-centered to be in a relationship with someone like Mike who puts his child first. She knew he had a son before they met in person. What does she expect him to do, stuff Mikey in a closet while she and Mike get to know each other? Sorry girl (she acts like a school girl), but you have to accept the child along with the man. Who would want the type of man who would put a new woman before his child(ren)?
Mike’s ex is a piece of work too. She and her friend sat there and trashed Valene and made fun of her, and then she had the nerve to be pissed because Valene wouldn’t go talk to her? What a bitch! She really showed her ass.
If Mike and Valene don’t work out, I hope Mike has learned enough about himself and what is really important that he will be able to find a woman who will actually ADD to the relationship and accept his son as her own.
I completely agree!
I think he could do better, maybe some who enjoys working out so they have a healthy beautiful body like he does.
She is far from beautiful, beauty comes from within as well.
Very true , this show does display some real issues when dating . I’m a step mom with no kids of my own for over 6 years now and I’m happy , I raise my step son like my own whether he likes it or not . Its tough but if you truly love the man you fell in love with ,kids or no kids ….. You find time for each other and you communicate all the time how I feel . Some woman are demanding and rude and think they are queen of the world get real girls !!! These Guys are single looking for a new start at love give them a chance !!! Good grief woman !